What does being agender mean to you?
Sir and ma’am both suck equally
What are your thoughts on the concept of gender?
It has nothing to do with your peen or vageen.
Have you ever doubted the existence of gender?
Yes
Do you think society as a whole would function differently if no one was assigned a gender at birth?
For the better I think
Do you feel agender? If so, what does that feel like?
I don’t want genitals. Ewww
Is there a term you use to describe yourself?
Meat marionette
Do you consider yourself non-binary?
Yup
Do you consider yourself transgender?
Sure
Do you plan on transitioning in any way? Name change, pronouns, surgery etc…
All of the above.
What are your preferred pronouns and how did you decide?
They/them. But anything is fine.
How strict are you with making sure people use your preferred pronouns and how vital are they to easing dysphoria?
Pretty vital. I correct people but give slack to olds
How soon after meeting someone do you explain your agender identity and ask them to use non-gendered terms and your preferred pronouns?
Seconds to years. Depends on if I want to continue talking to you.
What are your thoughts on dead naming?
Sucks. It’s not that hard.
What is your preferred honorific?
Sponge
How would you describe your sexual orientation?
Tenuous
Did understanding your agender identity change your understanding of your sexuality?
No. Not really
Are you monogamous or non-monogamous?
Aro
What is your gender expression?
Femish
Do you feel dysphoria? What is dysphoria like for you?
Feeling a penis in my pants is disconcerting.
How often do you have doubts about your gender identity?
Always
How often do you feel a desire to present or identify as identities aside from agender, be it your AGAB (assigned gender at birth), the opposite one, or non-binary?
I feel like i would be more accepted as female presenting
What are your thoughts on gender nullification surgery?
Yes please
How did you first discover agender?
Nothing felt right. Someone said I could opt out and I agreed
How did you come to realise that you were agender?
I was asked my gender for the first time and I said no
How did it change how you lived your life, if it did at all?
I changed my name and cut ties with transphobes
How long have you identified as agender?
1 year
Have societal pressures ever made you question/suppress your agender identity?
Yup
Why do you think it’s difficult for some people to grasp the concept of agender?
Sure. Binary gender is the norm
How did you start to come to terms with your agender identity?
Honesty
What was the moment where you fully came to terms with your agender identity?
Not sure yet
Has your understanding of agender shifted since you first learned about it?
Not really
What are things about agender you wish people understood better?
I’m not a freak
Have you come out as agender? If yes, how did you come out?
No
How did you decide who to tell and who do you tell now when meeting new people?
If I plan on spending more than a week with you I explain.
How did people react to your coming out?
Very supportive
What’s something you wish you had known about agender before coming out ?
I wish I knew 20 years ago
What’s the hardest part about coming out?
Being an old
What is dating and finding a romantic partner like?
Like wind on the hoover damn. No one gives a shit
What are your thoughts on dating apps?
I don’t fit in
How has identifying as agender affected your relationships?
I don’t have them anymore
What is it like filling legal forms about gender?
Shitty
What is it like using public restrooms?
Shittier
Does sexism affect your life in any way?
Not really
What are your thoughts on having kids? Do you plan to have kids someday?
Strong no
If you were to have kids someday, what would you like them to refer you as?
Grand funk master
What are your thoughts on skoliosexuality (attraction to any gender or nongender that isn’t cisgender)?
That’s me baby
Do you consider yourself to be part of the LGBTQIA+ community?
Yup
Do you identify as queer? If not, how do you identify?
Yes
Are you religious? If so, how does your faith and queerness work together?
Fuck god with a hot knife
How do you think your experiences through life may or may not have influenced/shaped your agender identity?
Not really
How do you feel about how agender is perceived in the LGBTQIA+ community?
It barely is acknowledged
Have you experienced discrimination in the LGBTQIA+ community?
‘You’re just gay. Get over your self.
What bothers you in the LGBTQIA+ community?
Clicks
Have you ever been to a pride parade? How did it go?
It was boring as shit
Do you agree that pride month is necessary?
Yes
What are your thoughts about “ally” being added to the LGBTQIA+ acronym?
If you let everyone in, what is the point
What are your thoughts on labels?
You seem nosey
How has having the agender label benefited you?
No
How do you feel about representation of agender in media?
What representation
What would you like to say to people who question agender as a gender identity?
Do you agree vegans exist?…
Do you think that some of the misconceptions come from the idea that gender and sex are the same thing?
Conservatives are brain dead
A kid asks if you are a boy or a girl, respond.
Where are your parents
How do you deal with people who are curious about your agender identity?
I moon them and yell “I plead the fifth”
How do you deal with unfair/mean comments?
People suck
What agender stereotypes do you not relate to?
There are stereotypes?
What are things to NOT say to an agender person?
You’ll figure it out someday
What questions do you wish people would stop asking you?
Do you have a dick