What does being asexual mean to you?
Pretty simple, means I don’t wanna fuck people
How do you identify within the spectrum?
Demisexual
What is your romantic orientation?
AM lesbian
Do you like being commonly called “ace”?
Sure
Do you experience sexual attraction?
So far, no. But I likely would if I was in a sufficiently intimate romantic relationship
What is intimacy to you?
No idea, never had it
What’s your outlook on love and sex?
Love good, sex ultimate expression of love
I possess neither
Do you experience sexual arousal/ masturbate?
Yeah
A little too much tbh
How do you feel about people being sexually attracted to you?
As long as they don’t pressure me for anything, it’s fine. Confusing though, as I’m ugly as shit
What are your thoughts on the “A” in LGBTQIA+ often standing for “ally” instead of “asexual”?
Fuck that shit
Do you have an ace ring? What does an ace ring mean to you?
No, I’m fucking poor. And idk, never saw the point
Respond to the phrase “Maybe you just haven’t had good sex yet”
Fuck off. And when you get there, fuck off again. And keep fucking off until you get back here, at which point fuck off.
Are you monogamous or non-monogamous?
I’d likely be polyam if, y’know, I actually had anyone
How does your experience of asexuality relate to your gender?
It doesn’t
How did you first discover asexuality?
reddit, actually
How did you come to realise that you were asexual?
The instant I read the definition; I immediately went, “Oh shit, das me”
How often do you have doubts about being asexual?
Literally never
How long have you identified as asexual?
About three years now
Have societal pressures ever made you question your own sexual desires or lack of it?
Not once
Why do you think it’s difficult for some people to grasp the concept of asexuality?
Because three of their four brain cells are concerned with sports, the fourth assumes that because they wanna fuck, everyone else also must wanna fuck.
How did you start to come to terms with your asexuality?
Quite easily
What was the moment where you fully came to terms with your asexuality?
Immediately after reading the definition of the word
Have you come out as asexual? If yes, how did you come out?
Yes and no. I’m not exactly public with it, but I make zero effort to keep it secret
How did you decide who to tell and who do you tell now when meeting new people?
If they ask or if it becomes relevant
How did people react to your coming out?
I haven’t officially shouted “I don’t wanna fuck” yet
What’s something you wish you had known about asexuality before coming out ?
Anything
What’s the hardest part about coming out?
Having people to come out to
What is dating and finding a romantic partner like?
I’ll let you know when I manage it
What are your thoughts on dating apps?
Fuck them. Even the ones made specifically for LGBT people are crawling with cishets trying to fish
How has being asexual affected your relationships?
It hasn’t, as I have none
Have you been romantically involved with people who aren’t asexual?
Nope
Do you prefer to be romantically involved with fellow asexuals?
Ideally
How do you feel about society over-sexualizing almost everything?
Fuck that and fuck you
What are your thoughts on having kids? Do you plan to have kids someday?
Man, I’m in college. I ca barely afford to feed myself, let alone kiddos.
Do you consider yourself to be part of the LGBTQIA+ community?
Uh, duh
Do you identify as queer? If not, how do you identify?
Tbh I’ve no idea what that term even means anymore, I’ve heard a dozen contradictory definitions
Are you religious? If so, how does your faith and queerness work together?
Nope
How do you think your experiences through life may or may not have influenced/shaped your asexuality?
Got molested as a kid, that might have done somethin
How do you feel about how asexuality is perceived in the LGBTQIA+ community?
It is regularly demeaned, shat on, ignored, and otherwise ridiculed
Have you experienced discrimination in the LGBTQIA+ community?
Not really, but I haven’t really dipped my toes in the water much
What bothers you in the LGBTQIA+ community?
There are still bigots somehow
Have you ever been to a pride parade? How did it go?
Nope
Do you agree that pride month is necessary?
Fuck pride month. It was a good concept that has fallen the way of Christmas and Thanksgiving, it’s over-commercialized and has strayed from its true meaning
What are your thoughts on labels?
Very useful for jars.
How has having the asexual label benefited you?
It hasn’t, but nor has it harmed me
How do you feel about representation of asexuality in media?
What representation?
What’d you like to say to people who question asexuality as a sexual orientation?
Go eat a bag of dicks and die. Also fuck off.
What effects does being asexual have on your life?
None really
How do you deal with people who are curious about your sexuality?
I don’t know, nobody cares
How do you deal with aphobia?
Murder?
What was the most difficult moment in your life surrounding being asexual?
I’m poor
What stereotypes about asexuality do you not relate to?
There are stereotypes?
What stereotypes about asexuality do you relate to?
Again, there are stereotypes?
What are the most annoying things people have said to you about asexuality?
I’d rather not say
What are misconceptions about being asexual?
Too many to list
What are things to NOT say to an asexual person?
I bet I can fix you
What questions do you wish people would stop asking you?
Nobody talks to me, so I got no questions to avoid
What would you like to say to anyone who is asexual or wondering if they’re on the asexual spectrum?
If you have to ask, you probably are
How involved would you say you are with the asexual community?
Not very
What are things you love about being asexual, or being part of the asexual community?
I can actually view women as people rather than sex objects
What are things that most asexual people can relate to?
Garlic bread
How often do you meet other asexual people?
I don’t
How do you recognise other asexual people irl?
I don’t
How do you meet and connect with fellow asexuals?
I don’t
Do you think sexuality , romantic attraction and gender identity are things that people are born with, influenced by upbringing, or both?
Man that shit’s above my pay grade, idfk
What’s it like being queer in your country/society?
idk, I don’t get out much
How have you been subjected to queerphobia?
Nop
What would you like to say to queerphobic people?
Fuck off and die
What would you like people to know about asexuality?
Literally anything, most people don’t know it exists
How can people be better allies to asexual people?
Don’t be dicks
What are your favorite asexual quotes?
I didn’t know there were any
What are some of your favorite pieces of media with authentic representation everyone should watch?
Not seen any
Who are your favorite asexual celebrities or characters?
Not aware of any
What are your thoughts on queer-baiting?
Fuck off
Give a message to the queer community
Eat the straights
Tell your story, opinions, experiences.
Eh, no