What is your definition of introvert?
Someone who enjoys time spent by themselves more than time spent with others.
Have you always been a introvert or did you develop introversion?
Always been an introvert.
Are you shy?
In certain situations, yes.
Are you anti-social?
Yes.
Are you a loner?
Yes.
Were you bullied?
Yes.
Do you have friends?
Yes.
Are you usually very outgoing among people you’re close with?
Yes.
How do you feel about being the center of attention?
Hate it.
Are you a good listener?
Yes.
Do you talk to yourself?
Yes.
Do you truly enjoy solitude?
Yes.
Do you often overthink ?
Yes.
Do you enjoy creating detailed fake scenarios in your mind?
I don’t enjoy it. It comes naturally.
Do you dislike people?
Yes.
Do you have anxiety?
Yes.
Are you a night owl or early bird?
Night owl.
Do you enjoy reading?
Yes.
Do you consider yourself very emotional/sensitive?
Yes.
Do you consider yourself to be independent?
Yes.
Do you have pets?
Yes.
What is your zodiac sign?
Taurus
What is your personality type?
INFJ
What is your IQ?
good enough to get by, who the hell knows
What is your attachment style?
avoidant
How often do you drink coffee?
daily
Do you prefer to share your thoughts or keep them to yourself?
keep them to myself
Do you think that being talkative equates confidence? Are you confident?
Being talkative suggests that there is adequate comfort in the situation. Nothing more.
Texting or talking?
Texting
What are your hobbies?
gardening
What is your favorite season of the year?
spring
What is your dream country?
an island away from everyone
What is your dream job?
I don’t dream of labour.
Describe your dream vacation
I’m on it every day.
What is your idea of a perfect day?
Doing what I want all day long.
How do you have fun?
Yes
How often do you use social media?
Daily
Do people often misunderstand you?
Constantly
How do you make friends?
I don’t
How do you spend your weekends?
Like the weekdays, no difference
How’s your relationship with your family?
Have no family
What’s your idea of the perfect relationship?
Synergy, shared preferred environments
How’s your temper?
It’s definitely there, noticeable
What calms you down when you’re upset?
Smoking pot, being alone
How do you feel about physical touch?
Hate it from strangers, even friends, don’t like it at all
How is your love life?
Fine
How does introversion affect your love life?
It doesn’t
What should be your partner’s priority when it comes to caring for you
Understanding
What are your thoughts on marriage?
It’s fine with the right person
How is your mental health?
Always been shaky, I do my best
How does introversion affect your career?
In the past when I had a career introversion made life exceptionally difficult. I was fired for being too quiet, too hesistant, not social enough, etc. Extroverts are cruel.
In what ways has introversion affected your relationships/friendships negatively?
I have lost many friends who used me, I do not trust people to truly like me or accept me as I am
Have you lost opportunities due to introversion?
Most definitely
What do you think about small talks and chit-chats?
Detest it
How do you feel about parties?
I can’t even think about it. I will not go to parties.
How do you feel about your birthday? How do you celebrate birthdays?
It’s another day in the year. I don’t care.
What do you think is your worst personality trait?
Sarcasm
What do you think is your best personality trait?
Patience
What stereotypes about introverts do you not relate to?
introverts are NOT serial killers, introverts are not necessarily shy or awkward
What stereotypes about introverts do you relate to?
introverts think deeply, are doing 4 dimensional chess in their heads
How do you recharge after long periods of socializing?
Haven’t done any long periods of socializing in 2 years, wouldn’t start now.
What annoys you about extroverts?
That introverts are acting “wrong” and that being loud and obnoxious is considered the gold standard of behaviour
What’s the most extrovert-y thing you’ve ever done?
I was a dog trainer for 10 years
Have you ever tried faking extroversion? How did that go?
It’s exhausting. For less than an hour I seem to be okay but it can’t go on too long or I just shut down eventually.
Fill in the gap. If it were possible, I’d stay in _ percent of the time.
Pandemic. Hello? If it were possible, I’d stay in 80 percent of the time.
How do you deal with confrontation/arguments?
I listen. I do not respond and I leave. All the information I need has been received. If the matter is irrelevant to me, I chalk it up to the other person being weak as fuck. If it persists, I will very matter-of-factly state my point. Since the damage has already been done, I don’t care how it turns out. My opinion is valid regardless of what else is said. I do not seek to be understood. It doesn’t matter.
How do you deal with pushy people?
I am curt and calm. If it persists, I’m sarcastic and rude.
How do you get ready for social interaction?
I don’t. it’s usually sprung upon me and I don’t have time to prepare.
Have you been in leadership roles? How did/do you cope?
Yes, it’s exhausting and I hated every second of it. I didn’t stay in those positions for very long.
Do you think that there are few introverts , compared to extroverts?
The majority of people are extroverts. That’s why society is designed as it is.
What are the most annoying things people have said to you about being an introvert?
Being laughed at for not doing wild and crazy things on the weekend,
Do you sometimes wish you weren’t an introvert?
No, I prefer my own, tried-and-true personality which I am familiar with to random, unpredictable, jarring and unhinged extroverts.
What are disadvantages of being an introvert?
Being ostracized and even disciplined in work situations for not “fitting in” and displaying rapturous joy at the next MANDATORY pizza party.
What are advantages of being an introvert?
The freedom to think and do as one wishes
What is an introvert’s nightmare?
Unannounced house guests.
What are the biggest misconceptions about being an introvert?
That we are deficient somehow.
What are things to NOT say to an introvert?
“You’re not going to to on a killing spree, are you? You gottta watch the quiet ones.”
Say something to fellow introverts
Society is all made up. Nothing is right or wrong. Do what feels right for you.
Say something to non-introverts
Shut the fuck up once in a while. Try thinking quietly for once.
Who’s your favorite introvert celebrity/character?
no clue
What are you favorite introvert quotes?
Albert Einstein wrote, “Everybody is a genius. But if you judge a fish by its ability to climb a tree, it will live its whole life believing that it is stupid.”
Do you love or hate being an introvert?
I don’t have any experience being an extrovert and therefore have nothing to compare.
“Are you okay? Why are you so quiet? You need to learn to speak up” Reply savagely.
Stay in your lane, Karen. Stick to what you know and leave me the fuck alone.