What is your definition of introvert?
A person who needs plenty of alone time to recharge from social interactions
Have you always been a introvert or did you develop introversion?
introvert since birth!
Are you shy?
bi, shy, and ready to cry
Are you anti-social?
Not really. I like spending time with my immediate family and like 2 friends. I’m just polite to everyone else
Are you a loner?
65% of the time
Were you bullied?
Yes, back in 2nd grade but just for a couple of months
Do you have friends?
Aside from my family, I have two friends I chat with every couple weeks, but every time we chat its like no time passed.
Are you usually very outgoing among people you’re close with?
Decently so.
How do you feel about being the center of attention?
its nasty
Are you a good listener?
Most of the time
Do you talk to yourself?
yup you got me there
Do you truly enjoy solitude?
i love it! it makes me feel so free. nowadays though, for me solitude also means being disconnected from the internet.
Do you often overthink ?
all day every day
Do you enjoy creating detailed fake scenarios in your mind?
hoo boy youre right on the money with this one. 100%
Do you dislike people?
i can tolerate them to a point
Do you have anxiety?
i try not to, but sometimes its all i feel
Are you a night owl or early bird?
Night owl, but I’m trying to kick the habit of sleeping past midnight and wake up earlier. Waking up late generally makes me feel like shit and early mornings are peaceful.
Do you enjoy reading?
I love it! Except for poetry. I don’t like reading poetry.
Do you consider yourself very emotional/sensitive?
Most of the time I am not, and even when I am feeling some intense emotion I try to push away/ ignore it until the dam breaks.
Do you consider yourself to be independent?
Yes, I definitely try to be. But this has caused me to not seek out help even when i know i need it.
Do you have pets?
nope
What is your zodiac sign?
scorpio, but im not really into zodiac
What is your personality type?
as in mbti? free online tests say intp lol
What is your IQ?
no idea!!!
What is your attachment style?
no idea what that is
How often do you drink coffee?
as long as im not sleep deprived, i’ll drink it. having coffee when i didnt get enough sleep the night before makes my head kinda hurt
Do you prefer to share your thoughts or keep them to yourself?
Depends on the thought and the person to share it with. The lucky people to know all my thoughts are the notepad app and a small notebook i hide from everyone.
Do you think that being talkative equates confidence? Are you confident?
For the first question, no. For the second, I go through multiple phases of confidence each year, right now, it is rock bottom.
Texting or talking?
talking, believe it or not.
What are your hobbies?
reading, crochet, cross-stitch, playing piano, and listening to music.
What is your favorite season of the year?
I live in a tropical country (philippines) , so there are only rainy and dry seasons. Definitely rainy.
What is your dream country?
Actually don’t have one. I am looking forward to working abroad and am open to the possibilities.
What is your dream job?
Archivist, but I’ve long since given up on that.
Describe your dream vacation
Either going to a city with a rich history and plenty of old historic sites and museums or spending a week secluded from the rest of the world by the beach or up a mountain
What is your idea of a perfect day?
A day where I am not obligated to do anything. No chores, no school stuff, nothing planned. A day where I get to decide spontaneously what I want to do and just do it.
How do you have fun?
I’m in a pretty bad sport rn with school, so sleeping and daydreaming do it for me these days. Otherwise, I do my hobbies, watch youtube, and play the 2 games i have.
How often do you use social media?
We’re still with dealing with online class right now, so messenger and MS Teams are always on. Youtube and reddit are really the only ones i enjoy and use often. Sometimes i open pinterest for crochet patterns. I have a facebook but haven’t posted in years. No twitter, no insta, no tiktok
Do people often misunderstand you?
Misunderstand isn’t the word I would use, more often they have misconceptions because they barely know me.
How do you make friends?
I have relied on getting lucky with group projects to make friendly acquaintances. If we continue hanging out then I consider that them a friend
How do you spend your weekends?
At home. Unless its the occasional outing with only my immediate family.
How’s your relationship with your family?
I’m quite close with my younger sister and tell her most things. I’m somewhat close with my mother but she’s far from knowing everything about me. My father works abroad and I only see him 2 or 3 months a year, so I’m not as close with him as my mother but I still like his company. I really do enjoy spending time with them, but some aspects of myself I just don’t share with them.
What’s your idea of the perfect relationship?
I’m not the romantic type, so I haven’t though super hard about this, but I’ve found out I’d actually quite like physical affection from a romantic partner
How’s your temper?
Perfectly kept inside and doesn’t show on my face. I vent to let out the anger.
What calms you down when you’re upset?
Music and food.
How do you feel about physical touch?
I hate it with everyone except for my immediate family, one particular friend, and future romantic partners.
How is your love life?
Hasn’t started yet. Only had 2 crushes so far and neither led to anything
How does introversion affect your love life?
idk, i dont have one
What should be your partner’s priority when it comes to caring for you?
they better be ok with long periods of silence
What are your thoughts on marriage?
not a priority but if it happens it happens
How is your mental health?
right now, in shambles
How does introversion affect your career?
i am in senior high
In what ways has introversion affected your relationships/friendships negatively?
I guess seeing my friends hang out with their other friends who I’m not close with made me feel isolated and alienated. I’ve never told them that though.
Have you lost opportunities due to introversion?
None come to mind
What do you think about small talks and chit-chats?
I can tolerate it
How do you feel about parties?
Big nope for me
How do you feel about your birthday? How do you celebrate birthdays?
Its definitely a day that exists! Takeout is celebration enough.
What do you think is your worst personality trait?
Refusal to seek help because my whole life I prided myself on independence. I can name many more but this is the first that comes to mind.
What do you think is your best personality trait?
I strive for modesty and contentedness. I have no great desires or ambitions, only to be at peace with myself.
What stereotypes about introverts do you not relate to?
The idea that pets > people.
What stereotypes about introverts do you relate to?
Escapism through books and music and choosing to starve over going to a kitchen with a stranger in it
How do you recharge after long periods of socializing?
Sleep, or any other activity where I can turn off my brain
What annoys you about extroverts?
they are loud and blow up my messenger with a billion notifications i do not want to see
What’s the most extrovert-y thing you’ve ever done?
I actually went to a pool party with almost my entire class once. It was fine but I’m not interested in doing it again.
Have you ever tried faking extroversion? How did that go?
Nope.
Fill in the gap. If it were possible, I’d stay in _ percent of the time.
90%
How do you deal with confrontation/arguments?
Actually, I’ve never been in a serious one because I’m just that conflict avoidant
How do you deal with pushy people?
Stay out of their way
How do you get ready for social interaction?
Mostly I don’t have to. I just feel nothing
Have you been in leadership roles? How did/do you cope?
Oh yeah. I absolutely hate it. Just sucked it in and dealt with it
Do you think that there are few introverts , compared to extroverts?
Fewer, but not by that much.
What are the most annoying things people have said to you about being an introvert?
A teacher once told me I was way too stuck in my own head
Do you sometimes wish you weren’t an introvert?
I’ve definitely felt envious of extroverts, but I enjoy being an introvert and wouldn’t change that part of myself.
What are disadvantages of being an introvert?
Its harder to make new connections with people
What are advantages of being an introvert?
I don’t have to care about the opinions and thoughts of many other people.
What is an introvert’s nightmare?
For me at least, it is having my most guarded thoughts broadcasted to the world
What are the biggest misconceptions about being an introvert?
The most common one thrown at me was that I was apparently uptight and snobbish because I was quiet.
What are things to NOT say to an introvert?
“You should talk more!”
Say something to fellow introverts
I feel you buddy
Say something to non-introverts
I don’t understand you, but I’m happy you’re happy
Who’s your favorite introvert celebrity/character?
first that comes to mind is my stardew valley husband Harvey.
What are you favorite introvert quotes?
cant think of any rn
Do you love or hate being an introvert?
i dont say i love it, but i dont wanna be any other way
“Are you okay? Why are you so quiet? You need to learn to speak up” Reply savagely.
Are you okay? Why are you so loud? You need to learn to shut up.
really tho my roast game is WEAK i cant ever think of anything good on the fly