What is your definition of introvert?
Acceptance that not everyone want to enjoy being social.
Have you always been a introvert or did you develop introversion?
Always.
Are you shy?
No
Are you anti-social?
No
Are you a loner?
Yes
Were you bullied?
Yes
Do you have friends?
Yes
Are you usually very outgoing among people you’re close with?
No
How do you feel about being the center of attention?
Hate it.
Are you a good listener?
Yes, I like to believe so.
Do you talk to yourself?
Yes
Do you truly enjoy solitude?
Yes
Do you often overthink?
No. Sometimes only.
Do you enjoy creating detailed fake scenarios in your mind?
Yes
Do you dislike people?
No
Do you have anxiety?
No. Agoraphobia.
Are you a night owl or early bird?
Night owl.
Do you enjoy reading?
Yes.
Do you consider yourself very emotional/sensitive?
No.
Do you consider yourself to be independent?
Yes.
Do you have pets?
No. But gonna have pets once I get a big enough apartment.
What is your zodiac sign?
Fish.
What is your personality type?
Eh?
What is your IQ?
120 on web test.
What is your attachment style?
Eh?
How often do you drink coffee?
Almost daily.
Do you prefer to share your thoughts or keep them to yourself?
Share.
Do you think that being talkative equates confidence? Are you confident?
No. No.
Texting or talking?
Texting.
What are your hobbies?
Books. Computers.
What is your favorite season of the year?
Summer.
What is your dream country?
Denmark.
What is your dream job?
Game programmer.
Describe your dream vacation
Hot. By some water. Close to a forest. With a book.
What is your idea of a perfect day?
A thunderstorm.
How do you have fun?
Reading. Programming.
How often do you use social media?
Once a week.
Do people often misunderstand you?
Yes.
How do you make friends?
Common interests.
How do you spend your weekends?
Computer stuff, programming, gaming, reading.
How’s your relationship with your family?
A bit distant.
What’s your idea of the perfect relationship?
Silently enjoying our company together.
How’s your temper?
Complicated.
What calms you down when you’re upset?
Alone time.
How do you feel about physical touch?
Awkward.
How is your love life?
Non-existant.
How does introversion affect your love life?
I don’t know. Crap at even getting friends.
What should be your partner’s priority when it comes to caring for you?
Enjoy themselves. And show it.
What are your thoughts on marriage?
Can be romantic but not necessary.
How is your mental health?
Mild depression and agoraphobia the last few years.
How does introversion affect your career?
No.
In what ways has introversion affected your relationships/friendships negatively?
People seems to think me boring, as far as i understand.
Have you lost opportunities due to introversion?
Probably.
What do you think about small talks and chit-chats?
Boring.
How do you feel about parties?
Fun if we talk. Fun if we also drink. And are talking about nerdish interests. Crap if its overcrowded and loud. Also no party is fun for longer than 3-4 hours.
How do you feel about your birthday? How do you celebrate birthdays?
Love it but also uncomfortable with the attention.
What do you think is your worst personality trait?
Lazyness.
What do you think is your best personality trait?
Curiosity.
What stereotypes about introverts do you not relate to?
Hating extroverts.
What stereotypes about introverts do you relate to?
Disliking crowds, attention, smalltalk, noise, forced socializing. Loving alone-time, books, “boring interests”, self-dependency.
How do you recharge after long periods of socializing?
Take a walk alone.
What annoys you about extroverts?
They need their background noise for everything. They never notice if they are in the way for someone.
What’s the most extrovert-y thing you’ve ever done?
I don’t know.
Have you ever tried faking extroversion? How did that go?
Not with any success.
Fill in the gap. If it were possible, I’d stay in _ percent of the time.
80
How do you deal with confrontation/arguments?
Calm and trying to understand.
How do you deal with pushy people?
Calm and unmoving.
How do you get ready for social interaction?
Relax in front of a computer. Try to be early if its a calm social event, try to be late if its a noisy social event.
Have you been in leadership roles? How did/do you cope?
No. Any attempt at pushing leadership on me has failed. I can’t command people.
Do you think that there are few introverts , compared to extroverts?
No. I think its more introverts than extroverts.
What are the most annoying things people have said to you about being an introvert?
Calling me “shy”.
Do you sometimes wish you weren’t an introvert?
Yes.
What are disadvantages of being an introvert?
Less social training early in life. Hard finding like-minded.
What are advantages of being an introvert?
More well-thought ideas. Less dependence on others.
What is an introvert’s nightmare?
Forced socializing.
What are the biggest misconceptions about being an introvert?
That we are shy. That we all got social anxiety. That being friendless or unsocial is always unhealthy.
What are things to NOT say to an introvert?
“Look who finally decided to show.”
Say something to fellow introverts.
Never let your own happiness be dependent on others.
Say something to non-introverts
Have fun, just accept that others might enjoy different things.
Who’s your favorite introvert celebrity/character?
I don’t know.
What are you favorite introvert quotes?
I don’t know.
Do you love or hate being an introvert?
Neutral. I am who I am.
“Are you okay? Why are you so quiet? You need to learn to speak up” Reply savagely.
*looks silently at person until he gets uncomfortable*