What does being bisexual mean to you?
Bisexual means that you like two genders.
Is your bisexuality evenly split or do you have a stronger preference for a gender than another?
Not to say that ladies suck, but I prefer men.
How do you feel about the 50/50 myth and assigning percentage to bisexuality?
I wouldn’t say there’s a perfect split; there are folk like me who prefer men, other folks who’ll like women etc.
Are you monogamous or non-monogamous?
non-monogamous
How do you feel about people assuming bisexuals are innately promiscuous?
It’s not true
How do you feel about the notion that bisexuality is a trend or rite of passage?
It’s sometimes true, but not always. Being bi is a lot more than just a “trend.”
Why do you think so many people have such harsh judgements against people who identify as bisexual?
Because it’s more than one option
How do you feel about people who say bisexuals are transphobic?
Being bi doesn’t make you transphobic
How did you first discover bisexuality , or the bisexual community?
I found bisexuality alongside the other communities; it’s pretty standard.
Have you ever experienced internalized homophobia?
Quite a bit, especially regarding this label and my other ones. Since I’m more into one gender than the other, I worry that I need to like women more to be valid.
How often do you doubt your bisexuality?
Not much
How did you come to realise that you were bisexual?
I already knew that I liked men, but the first time I noticed how much I liked ladies was when I met her through one of my dad’s friends. She was gorgeous in the attractive sort of sense. So I accepted that I like women too making me bi.
How long have you identified as bisexual?
3 years
Have societal pressures ever made you question/suppress your sexuality?
I sometimes suppress myself, mainly due to what I think about myself.
How did you start to come to terms with your sexuality?
I’m not at that stage yet, but I hope to reach there with acceptance eventually
Has your understanding of bisexuality shifted since you first learned about it?
I know that it’s more than man and woman; I’m also starting to accept the term bi+
Have you come out as bisexual? If yes, how did you come out?
Not yet
What’s the hardest part about coming out?
That it’s not straight
How has being bisexual affected your relationships?
I can understand to some extent why my friends can like a person
What are your thoughts on dating apps?
I don’t use them, mainly because I’m demisexual
What are your thoughts on having kids? Do you plan to have kids someday?
I support adoption, but I don’t want kids of my own.
Are you religious? If so, how does your faith and queerness work together?
I’m an atheist; I don’t think about those two things together.
What effects does being bisexual have on your life?
I could fall for anyone at any time, it’s not a bad thing, but it also won’t always lead to the best outcome.
Do you consider yourself to be part of the LGBTQIA+ community?
Yes
Do you identify as queer? If not, how do you identify?
Also yes
How do you feel about biphobia and bi erasure in the LGBTQIA+ community?
I dislike it
Have you ever been to a pride parade? How did it go?
Yes, I had fun
Do you agree that pride month is necessary?
Yes
What are your thoughts about “ally” being added to the LGBTQIA+ acronym?
Allies aren’t part of the acronym
What are your thoughts on labels?
I like them, you do you
How has having the bisexual label benefited you?
It helps me express my love of more than one gender
How do you feel about representation of bisexuality in media?
I like it, the most recent show I’ve watched with a bi character was able to express herself fully, and I’m happy for her.
What are things to NOT say to a bisexual person?
You’re not bi
How involved would you say you are with the bisexual community?
I’m not too involved outside of events
How often do you meet other bisexual people?
I’ve probably met at least one bi-person a month (pride group)
How do you recognise other bisexual people irl?
Their pins
How do you meet and connect with fellow bisexuals?
through pride groups
Do you think sexuality , romantic attraction and gender identity are things that people are born with, influenced by upbringing, or both?
it’s something that you’re born with
What’s it like being queer in your country/society?
It’s pretty easy; there are plenty of spaces to be queer and be accepted for being you.
What would you like to say to queerphobic people?
No comment
What are some of your favorite pieces of media with authentic representation everyone should watch?
Trailer park boys and dead end
Who are your favorite bisexual celebrities or characters?
Randy (TPB), Marceline (Adventure time) and Laura (Little Demon), to name a few characters.
What are your thoughts on queer-baiting?
I hate it