What is your definition of introvert?

Someone who needs to recharge their social battery while being alone. Introversion is a personality trait, we focus on our feelings on the inside, rather than external.

Have you always been a introvert or did you develop introversion?

I am not so sure. But, as I grew older, I recall cravings to be alone after a social gathering even with my family.

Are you shy?

No.

Are you anti-social?

Not at all.

Are you a loner?

Yes.

Were you bullied?

Sort of.

Do you have friends?

Nope. Not a single friend as of now.

Are you usually very outgoing among people you’re close with?

Yes. I had a friend who thought I am not an introvert because of how easy going, comfortable and loud I was with him.

How do you feel about being the center of attention?

I hate it.

Are you a good listener?

Absolutely.

Do you talk to yourself?

Not at all.

Do you truly enjoy solitude?

Sort of.

Do you often overthink ?

Yes. Overthinking is my middle name.

Do you enjoy creating detailed fake scenarios in your mind?

Absolutely. Everyday.

Do you dislike people?

I dislike most people.

Do you have anxiety?

Not really.

Are you a night owl or early bird?

I tend to be active in the night, but I changed it because I workout and sleep is important.

Do you enjoy reading?

Yes.

Do you consider yourself very emotional/sensitive?

I am very emotional and sensitive.

Do you consider yourself to be independent?

To an extent, yes.

Do you have pets?

Not now.

What is your zodiac sign?

Virgo.

What is your personality type?

INFJ.

What is your IQ?

I don’t know. Lol.

What is your attachment style?

I just took a quiz and it says that I am Anxious Attachment Style.

How often do you drink coffee?

I don’t drink coffee at all. I am a tea drinker.

Do you prefer to share your thoughts or keep them to yourself?

I would love to share my thoughts with the right person who understands me, but they are almost impossible to find.

Do you think that being talkative equates confidence? Are you confident?

No, I don’t think that. But, I am confident.

Texting or talking?

I like both actually. But most introverts talking in real life and over phone.

What are your hobbies?

Philately, contemporary dancing. Some gardening.

What is your favorite season of the year?

Autumn. But I live in a desert. Hahah…!

What is your dream country?

Iceland, USA.

What is your dream job?

A librarian.

Describe your dream vacation

My dream vacation would be in the mountains watching Aurora Borealis.

What is your idea of a perfect day?

A day with nothing on the back of my head.

How do you have fun?

Long drives and lifting at the gym.

How often do you use social media?

I don’t use any social media other than Reddit.

Do people often misunderstand you?

I feel I am misunderstood every day.

How do you make friends?

I tried making some friends at the gym because mutual interests. However, it didn’t turn out well. I know I am introvert, but I prefer face to face interactions. Reddit is a decent platform, I feel, but didn’t pan out well, either.

How do you spend your weekends?

I live in Dubai, so we been going to Expo quite a lot and I thoroughly enjoyed it. Now it is over we have some plans to go explore places in the desert.

How’s your relationship with your family?

It is great, they are amazing people. I love them to pieces.

What’s your idea of the perfect relationship?

The one that lasts forever. A relationship where you don’t have to second guess that they love you. A relationship where they will fight for you to be with you. I am old fashioned and Iive in a fairy tale. Hahaha!

How’s your temper?

I am short and hot tempered, but it is getting better.

What calms you down when you’re upset?

I am not sure about that. Lifting helps. Having a heart to heart conversation helps. May be a glass of wine?

How do you feel about physical touch?

Depends on how close I am with the person. I love hugs. Gentle strokes on my hair and all that.

How is your love life?

It is alright.

How does introversion affect your love life?

My partner is more introverted than me. Sometimes I can’t finish my sentences in a conversation and it annoys me. Initially, I found it hard to interact with his friends, but now things are getting better.

What should be your partner’s priority when it comes to caring for you?

Understanding me should be their priority.

What are your thoughts on marriage?

Marriages are great. Totally worth it with the right person. I know, it is not meant for everyone. I am married and we went through a lot to be together.

How is your mental health?

I may be depressed. I feel, I have tendencies of Borderline Personality Disorder. Sometimes, I find myself crying for no reason. I need to get that checked.

How does introversion affect your career?

If affects my career in a way that I find a comfort zone and remain there instead of moving up.

In what ways has introversion affected your relationships/friendships negatively?

I feel that they don’t like me enough as much as I do. I feel my friendships were all one sided with me putting all the efforts.

Have you lost opportunities due to introversion?

Yes.

What do you think about small talks and chit-chats?

They are alright in the beginning, when you are getting to know the person.

How do you feel about parties?

I hate parties. I am the kind of person who bring books to parties (if I have no way to avoid that party).

How do you feel about your birthday? How do you celebrate birthdays?

I like my birthday. I used to spend it with my parents, sister and cousins before moving to a new country. We have dinner together at our home. Yes, so my birthdays are amazing.

What do you think is your worst personality trait?

Expectations. I expect a lot when I give my heart to the people I care about. I go out of my way to help people I care about when they don’t feel the same about me. I am a giver.

I feel I never really learn.

Since I am hot headed, I fight with people.

What do you think is your best personality trait?

I am very empathetic. I give my 100% without any hesitation when I deeply care about someone. I am authentic as I have been told, so I can’t deal with fake shit.

What stereotypes about introverts do you not relate to?

That we are shy, passive, we have low self esteem and confidence. I am not passive at all. I am an energetic introvert.

What stereotypes about introverts do you relate to?

That we dislike parties. I suck at group hangouts. Three is good.

Being a loner.

How do you recharge after long periods of socializing?

I watch Netflix.

What annoys you about extroverts?

Pushing things on to people. Talking a lot when there is not connection. Extroverts with low standards.

What’s the most extrovert-y thing you’ve ever done?

A dance performance for our academy’s anniversary. Moving to a new country with no friends here.

Have you ever tried faking extroversion? How did that go?

I don’t like faking anything. I have tried to be interactive with the people I disliked due to obligations, but it led me to being uncomfortable and overthinking.

Fill in the gap. If it were possible, I’d stay in _ percent of the time.

My home for 50% of the time. I need to hit the gym for the other half every day. ?

How do you deal with confrontation/arguments?

I fight. I argue and make my thoughts heard. I am not the one to be passive and let people walk over me.

How do you deal with pushy people?

I ignore them. I often don’t meet many people.

How do you get ready for social interaction?

I imagine various scenarios in my head with them. Practice how I will react to each of them.

Have you been in leadership roles? How did/do you cope?

I disliked these extroverted activities in school and college where they want you to pretend as a teacher and take over the class. That count? Giving speech during school assembly. I coped by not looking into people’s eyes. I just looked at empty spaces because I have terrible stage fright.

Do you think that there are few introverts , compared to extroverts?

Oddly enough, I happen to meet many introverts than extroverts that I can’t connect with.

What are the most annoying things people have said to you about being an introvert?

That I need to “work on my self esteem” because I avoided meeting certain people. Having standards does not mean we have poor self esteem.

Do you sometimes wish you weren’t an introvert?

I haven’t thought about it that deeply.

What are disadvantages of being an introvert?

Some introverts are passive and people tend to think of it as weakness (while it is not) and take advantage of them. We are easily misunderstood.

What are advantages of being an introvert?

We are great listeners. As for me, my gut instincts are often true. But I ignore it and fall into the cesspool, anyway. ?

I feel I can see bullshit right through someone. I can tell when someone is being phony.

Since we have very less people in our lives, we treat them with utmost love and respect.

Consistency.

What is an introvert’s nightmare?

Social obligations.

What are the biggest misconceptions about being an introvert?

That we are shy, not confident, have low self esteem.

What are things to NOT say to an introvert?

To lower their standards just to befriend anyone.

Say something to fellow introverts

If something bothers you, don’t be afraid to speak up. Please don’t be passive.

Say something to non-introverts

Quietness does not equate weekness. We will be able comfortable around you, if you let us.

Who’s your favorite introvert celebrity/character?

Michael Scofield in Prison Break.

What are you favorite introvert quotes?

This is not an introvert quote, but “if you love everyone, what value does love hold”.

Do you love or hate being an introvert?

I don’t love it or hate, I am just content.

“Are you okay? Why are you so quiet? You need to learn to speak up” Reply savagely.

I might just eat you if I open my mouth.